Stop Waiting to Feel Ready: Why Action Beats Preparation in Network Marketing

Todd Falcone, The Fearless Networker, smiling in a professional headshot against a dark background.

OPINION | By Todd Falcone, The Fearless Networker®

Let’s set the record straight.

If you’re sitting around waiting to feel ready before you start working your business — you’re going to be waiting a long time. Possibly forever.

The network marketing landscape is littered with talented, sharp, well-meaning people who never got off the ground because they were stuck in preparation mode.

They wanted to get everything “just right” before taking action.

So they tweaked their scripts, redesigned their logo, organized their desk, rewrote their goals — and sat. And stalled. And second-guessed.

And while they were getting ready… someone else — less skilled, less polished, less “prepared” — passed them up.

Readiness Is a Lie That Steals Time and Momentum

Here’s the truth: no one feels ready when they start.

Confidence doesn’t show up at the beginning — it’s earned through messy, uncomfortable and awkward action. 

The people crushing it in this business aren’t “more ready” than you.
They just stopped waiting and started moving.

They made the calls before they knew exactly what to say or how to say it. 

They showed up to events before they felt like leaders and attended them even when they felt like they couldn’t afford it. 

They said yes to doing the work even when it scared them. They felt the fear, but did it anyway.  

Action builds clarity. Action builds confidence.
But waiting kills momentum before it ever has a chance to start.

Why Most People Wait — and What It’s Costing Them

If you’re not taking action, it’s not because you need more time.
It’s not because you don’t know enough.
It’s not because you’re not ready.

It’s because you’re scared.  Admit it.  Own it. 

Scared of rejection.  Scared of failing.
Scared of how you’ll look.  Scared of being judged.  

Let me be blunt — that fear is costing you:

  • Time you’ll never get back
  • Opportunities that won’t wait forever
  • Income you could already be earning
  • Skills you’ll only develop by doing
  • And the belief your team needs to see from you

The longer you sit in fear and indecision, the more painful it gets to start.
Inaction becomes a habit.

Doubt compounds.
Eventually, you start telling yourself you’re not cut out for this.

But you are.
You just haven’t moved yet.

The World Doesn’t Reward the Most Prepared — It Rewards the Most Courageous

You don’t win in this business because you know the most.
You win because you act the most.

Winners move.
They don’t let discomfort decide their schedule.
They don’t wait for the fear to go away.
They move through it.

You can read every book, watch every training, and take every note — but until you get into motion, nothing happens.

Network marketing isn’t a knowledge contest.

It’s a contact sport. And the people who make the most meaningful contacts — consistently — win. Period.

What Action Looks Like (Even When You Don’t Feel Ready)

Not sure where to start? Here’s a great place to begin…

  • Make five reach-outs today. Doesn’t matter if they’re messy. Just start conversations.
  • Post something of value — even if it’s not perfect. Show up for your audience.
  • Reconnect with three people you haven’t spoken to in a while. Rebuild relationships.
  • Follow up with that prospect who ghosted you — and don’t take it personally.
  • Ask your upline to do a three-way call. Leverage your support system.

Don’t overthink it. Don’t try to map it all out. Just move.
Momentum is created — never handed to you.

You’re Going to Suck at First — That’s Normal

Everyone stumbles early on. Everyone says dumb things. Everyone forgets the name of the product or freezes up during a call.

I started out as a 22-year old sweaty, nervous wreck with my heart pounding and sweat dripping down my forehead.  It’s part of everyone’s story.  

Being bad or nervous isn’t failure. That’s growth.
You learn this business in the doing — not in the planning.

The people you look up to?  They were once a disaster.
But they didn’t quit when they looked foolish.
They didn’t disappear when they got rejected.
They kept showing up.

And eventually… they got good.

If You Wait, You Watch. If You Act, You Win.

Here’s the raw reality:

While you’re overthinking, someone else is out there prospecting.
While you’re waiting to be ready, someone else is building a team.
While you’re adjusting your vision board… someone else is making deposits.

Don’t let your potential die in preparation mode.
You don’t need more readiness — you need more reps.

Readiness Is a Myth — Movement Is the Answer

You’ll never “feel” ready. Not for your first call. Not for your first team member. Not for your first rank advancement.

That feeling you’re waiting for?  It doesn’t exist — at least not until you earn it.
And the only way to earn it… is to take the first step, right now.

The ones who win aren’t fearless — they just stopped letting fear be the boss.

So take the shot.  Send the message.  Book the appointment.
Launch your business like your life depends on it — because it might.

Do it scared. Do it unsure.
Just don’t do nothing.

About the Author:

Todd Falcone is a 35-year veteran of the network marketing profession. He’s built massive teams, spoken on stages around the world, and trained hundreds of thousands of distributors and leaders on how to succeed at the highest level. Known for his no-fluff, real-world approach, Todd is the founder of The Fearless Networker® and author of multiple best-selling training programs.
Learn more at ToddFalcone.com.

Disclaimer: At BFH, we strive to keep all content—articles, press releases, data—as accurate and current as possible. However, treat this content as a guide, not as definitive authority for business decisions. Publishing a press release does not imply Business For Home BV endorses a company or individual, nor guarantees its claims. No warranties or representations, expressed or implied, are made regarding the accuracy, completeness, or suitability of information provided on this website. All content is provided “as-is,” without liability for errors or usage. Always fact-check and conduct your own due diligence. BFH publishes press releases for the global Direct Selling / Network Marketing / Home Business community. Laws governing Direct Selling can vary greatly by country; BFH does not warrant that any company or content is in full compliance with various local or country-specific laws; it’s up to the reader to research, verify and comply with all applicable local regulations.

Become a Recommended Distributor

Direct Selling Distributors, they are active professionals, who love to team up with you!

Write a comment

Connect with